For instance, a real conversation i recently had with a straight woman:
Her: youre so lucky you dont have to worry about your girlfriend cheating on you
Me: i mean…i dont worry about that…bc i know she would never…do you worry about your husband cheating?
Her, laughing: of course! Everyone knows men are likely to cheat, especially with jobs like ours (shes a flight attendant, he’s a pilot)
Me: i mean…if he is a good husband then you should be able to trust him not to cheat on you, just as he trusts you not to
Her: …wym
Me: ….cheating shouldnt be an expected cornerstone of any relationship, noelle